Brainstorm: Venus / Mars Astrology Aspects

he planet of love meets the planet of desire. Harmony or conflict between inner masculine and feminine forces. Inability to reconcile masculine and feminine forces within. Action and attraction, clash or blending. Angry with women. Overly compromising with men. Angry at having to be in a relationship. Conflicts between needing social interaction and the desire to do what you want when you want. Attracting what you want. Sexual frustration. Frustration or ease in relationships (depending on the aspect).

Aggressive flirts. Conflicts Actively flirtatious. Conflicts about whether to be the aggressor or the pursued. Aggressive attractiveness. Angry love. Passive-aggressive. Acting for peace. Harmonizing actions. Harmonizing forces. Aggressive relationships. Assertive in relationships. Selfish in relationships. Inability to have a harmonious relationship. Using manipulation to get what you want. Acting on desire. Using charm to get what you want. Sexually self-assertive. The drive to get what you want. Gender issues.

Hot. Ardent. The courage to love. The courage to persevere in relationships. The courage to go after what you want. Sexual magnetism. Sexually attractive. Attractive force. Animal sensuality. The desires of the base instincts. Conflicts between wanting a relationship and wanting sex. Conflicts between wanting a relationship and desiring the thrill of the chase. Conflict or harmony between the coarse aspects of the personality and the refined aspects of the personality. Hot romance. Candlelight dinners. Burning love. Burning desire. My heart’s on fire. Your sex is on fire. Flaming arrows. Old flames, New flames.

Valuing physical force. Feeling attracted to physically forceful people. Feeling attracted to aggressive people. Forcing your aesthetic. Forcing your personal taste. Conflict or harmony between social urges and selfish drives. Competitive in love. Competitive in social situations. Competitive in relationships.

When I go out with the ladies, I don’t force them to pronounce my name. I tell them I like to go by the nickname of Kitten.
– Joaquin Phoenix, actor & musician Walk the Line, Venus conjunct Mars in Scorpio (quote source)

Knowing what you want and taking the initiative to get it. Taking the initiative in relationships. Taking the initiative in social situations. Leading the relationship. Taking the lead in negotiations. The first to try to a new style. Being at the leading edge of style. Showing the way in art, fashion, beauty or style. A creative leader. A social pioneer. An artistic pioneer. A pioneer in money and finance. The drive for wealth. The drive for comfort. The drive for sensual pleasure. Irritable in relationships. Irritable with social demands. Physical grace. Graceful movement. A perfect blend of masculine and feminine. Forceful yet tactful. Assertive yet cooperative. Driven yet peaceful.

Conflicts between getting along and getting what you want. Problems compromising. Stimulating relationships. Physically symmetrical. Sexual charm. Sexual balance. Cohesive energy. Putting energy into relationships. Putting energy into creativity. Putting energy into the way you look. Putting effort into your appearance. Putting energy into being attractive. Angry about beauty. Competing in artistic competitions. Beauty competitions. Looking for the next conquest. Impatient in social situations. Impatient in relationships. Assertive in creative pursuits. Assertive in social situations. Assertive in securing funds.