ain through relationship. Understanding your link to humanity through relationship. Love tinged with pain. Extreme sensitivity to peace and harmony, and a lack of peace and harmony. Extreme sensitivity to harmony or disharmony in relationships. Extreme sensitivity to your social relationships – where you stand, who likes you, who your friends are, and who your enemies are. Extreme sensitivity to issues of beauty and attraction. Extreme sensitivity to art and creativity. Extreme sensitivity to issues of value and worth.
Wounded feelings surrounding your value, worth and self-esteem. Feelings of being unattractive, unloved or unwanted. The pain of rejection in love. The pain of rejection because of your appearance. Being rejected because you’re not popular or pretty enough. Pain surrounding the need to be liked and adored. The dark side of wanting to be seen as beautiful and attractive. Body dysmorphic disorder. Plastic surgery junkies. The wounded feminine. Healing the feminine self. For men, getting in touch with your anima. Overcoming sensitivity concerning your appearance. Learning to like yourself. Realizing that beauty really is more than skin deep. Painful relationships with women. Relationships with women in which sexual competitiveness, envy and jealousy dominate. Inability to tap into your powers of attraction. Learning about the Law of Attraction. Overcoming fears of being alluring and seductive. Learning to flirt. Learning to enjoy the pleasurable side of life.
With Chiron in aspect to Venus we may have the gift of seeing beauty where others do not notice it and of finding value in what they dismiss as ugly or worthless.
― Melanie Reinhart, Chiron and the Healing Journey
Dysfunctional relationships with money. Using pleasure as a way not to deal with pain. Using manipulation to get your way. Using charm and seduction as the path of least resistance to get what you want. Using money to heal pain. Trying to use money to buy love. Money can’t buy you love. Money can’t buy happiness. Getting stuff is not the same as getting affection. Becoming aware of overly passive tendencies in relationships. Becoming aware of when you are simply being a mirror for the people in your life. Getting in touch with what you really want and how that acknowledgment might affect your relationships. Becoming a guru or guide through the realm of relationships. Someone who knows the trials of love. Someone who has been through the mill of love. Love is a sore subject. Relationships are a sore subject. Inability to let go of past relationship hurts. Crushed, not crushes. Just tear my heart out my chest and stomp on it, why don’t ya? How does it feel to treat me like you do? Shot through the heart, and not by Cupid.
With Chiron in aspect to Venus we may be drawn to the ‘beautiful people’, and envy those who are wealthy, glamorous or famous for artistic achievements.
― Melanie Reinhart, Chiron and the Healing Journey
The doors of perception are opened through relationship. Wholeness through accepting and appreciating each relationship in your life and what it has to teach you. Wholeness through making an effort to lessen conflict in the world. Harbingers of peace. Deep insights into the nature of relating to others. Unlocking new doors in relationship. Finding new ways of relating. Discovering within yourself something original upon which to build self-love and self-esteem. Original perceptions about relationships. Deep insights into the creative process. Using art as a way to release pain and trauma. Creativity can be a sore subject. Money can be a sore subject. Artists who feel that their work is never properly valued. Issues with feeling that you are never paid what you are worth. Feeling that you should be financially compensated for your love. Pain centers on feeling appreciated for your creative contribution.
The key to healing is building self-esteem. The key to healing is making peace in relationships. The key to healing is understanding your relationship with money. The key to healing is tapping into your creativity. The key to healing is to make peace with your appearance. The key to healing is focusing on peace. The key to healing is realizing that some relationships can’t be fixed. The key to healing is standing up for your values. The key to healing is accepting yourself and others. The key to healing is enjoying life.
People with Venus/Chiron aspects:
- Jessica Alba, actress, Sin City: Venus conjunct Chiron
- Josef Albers, art educator: Venus trine Chiron
- Bjork, singer: Venus sextile Chiron
- Coco Chanel, fashion designer: Venus quintile Chiron
- Indira Gandhi, the first and only, to date, female Prime Minister of India: Venus quintile Chiron
- Ken Kesey, author, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest: Venus square Chiron
- Kirk Kerkorkian, “Father of the Mega-Resort”: Venus square Chiron
- Tammy Faye Baker Messner, disgraced televangelist known for her thick makeup: Venus opposite Chiron
- Gene Kelly, singer/dancer/actor, Singing in the Rain: Venus opposite Chiron
- Catherine Zeta-Jones, singer/dancer/actor, Chicago: Venus quincunx Chiron
- Casey Affleck, actor: Venus Sesquiquadrate Chiron
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